Curate members Blanche Faulk, Amina Shahid, Laura Siu Nguyen and Victoria Nguyen. Photo by Jordan Hefler

Completely Unconfused: The community helping women find clarity, confidence and connection

For years, Victoria Armstrong found herself drawn to one thing: creating opportunities for other people.

As a communications professional, storyteller and now founder of Curate for Women Who Work, she has built a career helping ideas come to life. After years of working behind the scenes, she never imagined becoming the face of her own community.

“I was afraid to put my name on anything publicly,” Armstrong says.

Then came a dream. Literally.

In 2020, after months of encouragement from her husband, a season of prayer and a pastor’s prophecy, Armstrong woke from a vivid dream with the vision for what would become Curate. The following year, she held the first Curate Conference exactly as she dreamed it, expecting about 40 attendees. More than 100 women showed up.

Five years later, Curate has expanded into an annual conference, podcast, storytelling platform and Curate Besties, a growing network of women who invest directly in female entrepreneurs.

“We live in a world that’s constantly telling women who we should be,” Armstrong says. “My true hope is that women come to Curate and feel less confused, find clarity on why they’re building what they’re building, and know the next step to take.”

Rather than simply creating another networking organization, Armstrong envisions a community where women can find meaningful connection, practical guidance and confidence to take action, no matter what they’re navigating.

“What I love most is helping people and organizations move forward,” Armstrong says.

That philosophy is woven throughout Curate, beginning with its logo: an asterisk.

Often overlooked as a tiny symbol at the bottom of a page, for Armstrong, it represents the unseen parts of every woman’s story—the setbacks, pivots, sacrifices and moments of courage that rarely appear on a résumé or social media profile but ultimately shape who she becomes. It’s also a symbol of clarity, a word that has become central to Curate’s mission.

Founder Victoria Armstrong (center) at a past Curate event.

While many conferences inspire, Armstrong intentionally designs Curate to equip women with a plan. Sessions cover everything from leadership, fundraising and marketing strategy to salary negotiation, tax planning, artificial intelligence and women’s health. The goal isn’t simply empowerment. It’s action.

“You leave with practical steps,” she says. “Inspiration is wonderful, but it fades if you don’t know what to do next.”

That approach has already left a lasting impact. Armstrong recalls an attendee leaving an unhealthy relationship after hearing another woman’s story. She’s seen entrepreneurs connect with mentors and completely change the trajectory of their businesses. Those stories remind her that Curate is about far more than professional success; it’s about helping women recognize what’s possible for their lives. The same belief inspired Curate Besties.

After unsuccessful attempts to secure funding for Curate, Armstrong realized her challenge wasn’t unique, so she created a community of women committed to investing in other women. Today, more than 40 Curate Besties help fund the organization’s annual pitch competition. This year, the $15,000 grand prize will go to a female tech entrepreneur. Local high school students will also compete for $5,000 to help launch their own ideas, in partnership with Young Entrepreneurs Academy in Baton Rouge and New Orleans.

For Armstrong, Curate’s success is measured by more than numbers. It’s measured in people: the woman who discovers a mentor. The entrepreneur who finds funding to pursue an idea. The professional who gains confidence to ask for what she’s worth. The attendee who realizes she doesn’t have to navigate life’s next chapter alone. Armstrong believes every woman deserves access to knowledge, opportunity and support.

“Curate is built for people who believe women shouldn’t have to figure out everything by themselves,” she says. “And if that resonates, this is the place for them.”

The Completely Unconfused Conference will take place September 17 to 19 in New Orleans, with the theme, “The WILL Lands. The WAY Launches,” and welcomes women from every profession and background for three days of personal and professional development, practical workshops and meaningful connection. Learn more or register at curateforwomen.org.